Old homes are unpredictable. Sometimes that means that things break down. The plaster cracks, the windows need replaced and old gnarled tree roots wend their way into bothersome places. It means that we are pretty much running a hotel for mice; that strange smells emanate from the attic in the heat of July; that a cold wind is certain to flirt with the back of our necks when we sit on the couch in the living room.
Despite all of this, and more, we stay. Perhaps that is partly because of geography, because we are situated close to amenities, highways and the school that the kids love so much, they look at me mournfully any time the subject of moving houses comes up. And perhaps we stay because we just don't feel up to the task of packing five people's belongings into boxes. I do have a great aversion to the work associated with moving.
The truth is, we also stay because there is some pretty cool stuff. Like the nine foot ceilings. And the transom windows above all the bedroom doors. And the substantial original fir trim that has never been touched by a paintbrush. True, we have been renovating off and on for the past 12 years, but we don't touch the classic features. And we try to stay true to the history of the house, to not make changes that are completely out of character. Because this old house has character in spades.
Some nights, as I lie in the dark in my bed listening to the creak of its old bones, the weary sighs, I wish I could get up and offer it some scotch or a snifter of brandy in exchange for some stories. I would cuddle under my fleecy throw and revel in tales of babies welcomed, celebrations, the years of bountiful harvest, the times of struggle and loss.
Every so often we do get a glimpse of the past. On Christmas Eve the son of our neighbours rang our doorbell. These neighbours are in their 80's, married for 50 years and still going strong. My husband has been clearing their snow for the past few winters. Their son came over to thank him and, seeing that we had obviously renovated the back entrance, got to wondering about how the house has changed since he was a youngster living across the road.
"There used to be two old sisters who lived here," he said. "They had transom windows above the doors upstairs. Are those windows still there?"
We assured him that they were, even offering to give him a tour of the house. He politely declined, seeing that we were in the midst of dinner and not wanting to impose. We chatted a bit longer and he left. I hope we can chat again some time and learn more about what it was like to live around here 40 years ago.
Until then, we continue to make our own history, changing the house to keep pace with the life that we are living here. We started a new renovation last week in the basement, pulling up emerald carpeting, tearing down paneling, punching down stubborn concrete walls. Yesterday the workers brought me an old empty glass bottle of hair tonic they uncovered as they tore the plaster from the walls. Perhaps it was left there in error, but I like to think that someone placed it there on purpose knowing that, down the road, some future home owner would discover it and try to imagine a time where dandruff was treated with Canadian-made tonic in a sturdy glass bottle.
The workers are preparing to insulate the walls now and cover them with drywall. Last night we were sitting around trying to think of what item we could place in the walls for some future home owner to discover. We're having a tough time coming up with just the right item that is a authentic snapshot of life in 2009. Perhaps a section of today's newspaper? A beloved book? Polly Pocket shrapnel? A vase hand-painted by one of our children? We are having trouble coming to a consensus.
So I ask you, dear readers, what would your hidden shrine be? What would you place in my walls?
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Some Before Pictures:
The view down the stairs. This is where they found the hair tonic bottle.
The makeshift office. Scary and cold.
The shower in the bathroom. Where does one buy tile like this?
The spare bedroom. Carpet on carpet action.

16 comments:
JANET! OH MY GOD I AM FREAKING OUT WE HAVE THE SAME STAIRWELL! IT IS COMPLETELY IDENTICAL! AAAAAH! DO WE LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE?
I can't wait to see what you do with it, on a non-hysterical note. Perhaps by law we will be forced to do EXACTLY THE SAME THING to our identical stairwell. Hmm.
Mine is NOT our basement stairwell, though. Our basement stairwell is SCARY. Scarier.
I can relate to many of your commentary here. My house is 106 years old, built by my grandparents. It's had several upgrades, a bit of remodeling and such over the years. I don't ever want to leave here though -it's been my home for the majority of my life and I love it. But I love the way it reminds me of so many family occasions -filled to overflowing by my aunts, uncles and cousins -the special foods -traditional dishes -my grandmother used to fix. I can still hear my Grandpa's soft, sweet bass voice, the smells of the bread baking. I feel the touch of so many of my family now long gone as I go about my day in this old house. Warmer climes? A new modern home? Nope! Not for me. I'm very content to stay right where I am, even if there's still tons of work that could be done on this place. Maybe in time, it will get done but I'll be long gone by then! And my daughter and grandkids can listen closely to the walls tell them stories about things I did here too.
THere's always the old new paper stand by. Put in a news paper from the day Obama got elected. Another idea might be a photo of your family with date and names on the back.
That bottle is cool. What a great idea to put something there too.
I love the idea of asking the house to tell its stories.
How cool you found that bottle! You could replace it with an iPod! Or maybe a CD, or an old cell phone you don't use anymore...?
I kind of love your old house :)
Oooo... this is so good to read for me, because of the place I stay in. when the place gets too old, say 30years, the government will either demolish and give us a new one, or upgrade the pipes and what have you, for us ~ citizens....
to do up the house...wow! that's lots of thinking and work to do, boy!
Hey J, K here. I say leave a bottle of scotch or brandy and a newspaper.
And, can you do me a favour? Can you pls write more often?!?!
How I love old houses. It reminds me of rummaging through my grandparents' house in New Bedford, MA, as a kid, discovering so many odd artifacts.
As for me, I'll have to be leaving pacifiers and a copy of "Goodnight, Moon" and a VCR as a tribute to our past.
Hum, what about a note in a bottle with a list of what you love and maybe not love about your beautiful old home.
T.
That carpet on carpet action is HOTT Janet.
And I adore your home, it speaks of love and laughter (and a husband whom is a general contractor). :)
I love that you thought of giving your house some scotch, and then came upon hair tonic.
My husband always writes his initials and the date on the insides of walls and the like, and leaves the front section of the paper within. He even did it when he replaced the medicine chest in our old (rental) apartment.
I'm betting that wasn't really hair tonic in there.
You could leave a bottle of wine that ages well, and maybe a family photo. Also maybe a nice Aveda shampoo and some conditioner.
I love old houses. As you say, they have such character, and not because of their age, but as you say, because of the things they've witnessed.
When we were building our house we decided to throw some items into the foundation walls. We asked all our friends and family members to contribute something. My sister-in-law gave us a little packet of herbs (we later learned they were for fertility - it worked!). Our potter friend made us a small goblet, unglazed, specifically for the foundation, and another which we keep on a special bookshelf. My mother-in-law contributed a few nails that came out of the cabin her great-grandfather built (we only put one of those in the foundation - the rest are on the aforementioned shelf). Obviously there was lots more.
I think you could have each of the kids contribute something. Maybe draw a picture of something current, or write a story about what their interests are now. The newspaper idea is good too. You could collect several from around the world.
PS (I know you said I didn't have to read everything I missed, but I'm going to, because I'm OCD that way.)
I can't wait to see the transformation. What did you end up leaving in the wall? My suggestion would've been a Globe and Mail from the day of Obama's inauguration and maybe a pack of Smarties.
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